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Love at first sight?

In her recent interview for Playboy, cover girl Marge Simpson revealed how she knew Homer was the man she’d marry: "Well, when the doctor said I was pregnant, I heard a voice saying, 'That's the man you're going to marry.' The voice was my mother's."
Sigh. Whatever happened to love at first sight? After all, fairytales lead us to believe there is one special someone out there for each of us, and that we’ll know as soon as we meet him that he’s the person we’re meant to spend the rest of our lives with. But can that possibly be true? And will we really know on the spot?
Take a group of people aside and ask them the age-old question, “Do you believe in love at first sight?” and chances are you’ll walk away with a grab bag of responses. Whether it’s your neighborhood mailman or the twofaced suck-up in the office that you loathe, everyone has an opinion when it comes to this burning q. We heard from almost a hundred women and men on the subject, and while there were a few naysayers in the bunch, after reading through all the true tales of love at first sight we’re believers!
Here are 10 true tales of love at first sight:
- “I definitely believe in love at first sight - or maybe love at first meet. When I met my husband, I was immediately drawn to him, and he to me. It was like - ZOW! Who is this!? I first noticed his hands, as they fit mine perfectly. We spent the night together that first night, and have been together for over 10 years now (married since 2002). I love him more every day."
- Ada Vaugha, 38, Chicago suburbs, owner of CuteyBaby, LLC
- “When I was 18, I saw Joshua for the first time. He was standing in a doorway and I felt like I had been punched in the stomach. I looked at my friend who was standing by me and said, ‘That's the man that I'm going to marry.’ She looked at me like I was crazy and I didn't blame her - it sounded crazy to me. Then, we began dating and I broke all of the rules: I slept with him (on the first date), I told him that I loved him and that we were going to marry one day (on the second date), and then I moved in with him after we had been together for five years. After 12 years together, we are getting married in the beginning of next year. I am more in love with him now than ever. We have had our problems, but we have always worked them out.”
- Gina M. Gallo, 30, Louisiana, school librarian
- “Yes! I believe! I met my husband 16 and a half years ago when he rear-ended me in a car accident. I jumped out of the car and saw him and my heart literally stopped. Once we started a conversation, I was a goner. It was the way he looked directly into my eyes when he spoke to me. I was dating someone else at the time, but I still went straight to my grandmother’s house after the car accident and told her I had just met the man I was going marry. We’ve now been married for nine years and have a 5-year-old son.”
- Marie Melsheimer, 34, Oregon, marketing consultant
- “Absolutely, I do believe in love at first sight. I met my wife on February 15. She came for a job interview. And as soon as I shook her hand I knew I was going to marry her. Throughout the entire interview, I kept saying to myself, 'Why are we having this interview; we are going to get married.’ And did a year later! We have been married seven years.”
- James H. Solomon, II, PhD, 60, Florida, psychologist
- “I was waiting on the balcony of my apartment waiting for several fellow astronauts to arrive so that we could all go together to see Crosby Stills & Nash on June 3, 1990. As I was standing there, a guy drove up, got out of his car and looked around. I leaned over the balcony and said ‘Are you with us?’ He looked up, smiled the most incredible smile and said ‘I hope so.’ I went into the apartment and called a friend and said ‘I just saw the man I am going to marry and spend the rest of my life with.’ We moved in together in 1991 and married in 1992. And it is still amazing!”
- Dayna Steele, 50, Texas, motivational business speaker
- “I definitely believe in love at first sight, at any age! I was 59 years old when my husband of almost 25 years left me - for a man (but that's another story). Twelve days later, I joined an online dating service. Hey, life's too short, so why wait? Over a three-year period, I dated hundreds of men. Yes, hundreds. And then I met Peter. It was love at first sight. For both of us. I was attracted to his direct gaze, his instant smile and his overall presence. Now, we're living happily ever after, and I even wrote a book about it!”
- Dale Koppel, 66, Boston, author of The Intelligent Woman’s Guide to Online Dating: And She Lived Happily Ever After
- “I had my eye on a man who I thought was very attractive, but the table plan meant I was seated next to someone else at a wedding breakfast. To my surprise, I immediately relaxed, sighed and thought ‘Ah, there you are!’ I first noticed his happy energy and lovely eyes. He was talking to the girl across the table and I thought, ‘Stop talking to him. He’s mine!!!’ Soon, he turned to me and started a conversation. He was right in every way. I had dreamed of him! At the beginning of next month, still in love, we celebrate our 36th wedding anniversary. So yes, I do believe in love at first sight. In fact, before I looked at him, he just felt right – as if I had come home.”
- Ingrid Collins, 65, UK, consultant psychologist at The London Medical Centre
- “The fellow I was dating at the time introduced me to my husband in 1986. I knew within an hour that John was the man for me from a simple game of soccer with his cat’s plastic ball. We married in 1988 and are living happily ever after. Yes, I definitely believe in love at first sight!”
- Phyllis Harber-Murphy, 56, Canada, virtual assistant
- “My husband and I first met on Valentine’s Day of 1982, on the balcony of a theater called La Paloma Theater in Encinitas, California. I was enthralled by the smile that filled his entire face. He knew immediately that I was his soul mate. It took a little bit longer for me to realize it. But yes, it can definitely happen. It happened for us. We have been together since the day we first met!”
- Patty Mooney, 54, San Diego, video producer and co-owner of Crystal Pyramid Productions
- “My husband and I met at a racquetball club more than 25 years ago. I was teaching aerobics; he was on the court. As I passed by the window he was about to take a shot and took a hit instead … he ran into the glass full force. The next night found us both in a local pub, at evening’s end he offered to drive me home. Instead, we ended up in a pizza place until 3:00 a.m. and when he finally dropped me off in the wee small hours of the morning I kissed him and told him I was more than likely going to fall head over heels in love with him. He didn’t even bat an eye when he asked me to have lunch with him later that day. My 12-year-old daughter adored him and within a month we moved in together. We celebrated our 25th anniversary on August 25 and we fall in love again with every kiss.”
- Carmen Borthwick, 56, British Columbia, freelance writer

True meaning of Christmas?

Have you ever wonder the true meaning of Christmas?
There is a lot of controversy and confusion in people's minds over Christmas and its meaning both in our personal lives and in the world.

When it comes to Christmas, is there anything that comes across your mind?

I bet many of you would think of Christmas as merely celebrations, presents, Santa Claus, snowmen, socks, turkey, get together, potluck, Christmas trees, jingle bells, jolly candies, parties, parties and more parties!!!
Some people feel it is an exclusively Christian holiday, holding no special meaning for them. Others believe it is nothing more than a feeding frenzy for the free market and an excuse to get people to open their wallets at every turn. Others take the viewpoint that it is a holy day that is cheapened and diminished by all the garish festivities

Well, well well!!! They truly make up Christmas season, yeah?! The true meaning of Christmas actually comes from Christ alone!!! On the 25th of December, 2000 years ago, Jesus Christ was born into the world, to bring love, joy, peace and salvation to the lost!!!It is the day to celebrate our King Jesus's birth!!! =] He is the promised son, sent by God to be the deliverer of our people. John 3:16, For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believe in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

To make it swEEt and simple, watch this, you'll get the hook of it!!! Don't forget to full blast your speaker to find such angelic beautiful voice that soothes your soul!!! * wink** wink** =]


PS: Prepare your heart, to capture the full and new meaning of Christmas!!!




NOW THAT YOU KNOW THE TRUE MEANING OF CHRISTMAS, WAIT NO MORE!!! SHARE IT WITH OTHERS!!! CARING IS SHARING ^ ^!!! =]

Tough time

i didnt sleep at all last nite..it's been 2 sleepless nights since thursday..seriously painful man..it's like ur heart got 'fong sap' and its worst than that..u feel demmm sad, bitter, hopeless, lost, discourage, worst, weak, nobody will ever love me one..sighh..today i woke up super early to be the jimuis my eyes can hardly open also..coz never really slept at all..it was all lovely..i love the bride's dress so beautiful and flowy with lovely laces..wah i soo love her dress..she glows and looks soo beautiful in her wedding gown. wish to be like her!!! i carried her gown for her as it was flowy and long..=] then v played all our tricks on the best mans. the first game was all the best mans includign the bride groom gotta do a pumping of 30 times and in that same position drink pepsi thru the green stirrer/ straw for hot drinks from starbucks, after that they gotta give us angpow..very cheeky of them giving us specimen moneys and empty angpows and even RM 1..but the other jimuis demanded more so they increased until we are satisfied, the next round the ahrd boiled eggs gotta pass thru the left leg of the bridegroom to the right leg and answered some of the bride's personal data, guess what!!! He got it all RIGHT!!! it means he really love her and he did so much and is super sporting in order to get to his bride..awww how sweet!!! Will mine be that sporting next time? lol the ifnal round was he gotta drink a ginger drink, green tea,soya bean adn cucumber juice..lol..he drank it all..tadaaa..then v let him in...they were happily united together!!! AFter that we packed and left to chc, for their wedding matrimony!!! while i was watching the exchanging of vows and the couples saying i do during the death do us apart, for better or worst, for richer or poorer for being sick or healthy, i seriously cried...soo emoo!!! but then i sucked it all in again!!! tahan!!! i was sooo touched and felt soo happy for them, at the same time i felt sooo sadddd..coz i dont even dare to dream i will ever get married also..my dream of 121212 is all gone..also will anyone wants me or loves me for eternity..sighh i wonder if all girls think alike or am i the only honest girl here!!! then there were 2 lighted candles, each the bride and bridegroom took one candle and lit the middle candle, while Keith said now may both flesh be join as one, body soul and mind, tadaa only 1 join together candle there!!! Awwwwwwwwwww so sweeetla..

bla bla bla..after that i went home and auto lock my room and just sob theree for hourss and so happen chatted with a friend from vine st. church!!! Felt better then!!!

Family and i went to tanjung harapan to celebrate bro's 21st birthday!!! The food was super deliciouss!!! We ordered quite a variety of dishes. We ordered lobsters, so huge, fried honey sotong, mix seafood, butter chicken, asam fish head, kangkung belachan!!! Ah i forgot my taufu..anyway i was too full seriously full as potion was big!!! Would say it was a presumptuous meal, really!!! Bill was quite ex! =b but it's alright!!!! wanted to bring tanglung to jalan jalan but nobody wanna jalan with em sob..so happen jo called me and complain so much bout her work..lol ended up we were laughing on the phone!!! not a bad day!!! =] hopefully i will get better in time!!! =] amen!

help him amen

Dear God, i pray and i pray for him to do well in cpa exam!!! I pray for flying colours and good results, i pray you'll grant him wisdom and understanding. i pray he'll be disciplined enough to study and not to drink tea or hang out always.i pray he will be a good boy. i pray for good health, i pray that he will pray to u and seek your help and put u first as well so that everything else will fall in its place. i pray that he will always be in good health and heal the rashes, lord. By faith, he will be healed completely. i pray you'll always love him and give him time no matter what. i pray he'll experience u truly. i pray for inner peace within him. i pray u'll take away his sadness and bitterness and hopelessness. fill him with your peace and love lord. i pray his family will always be in good health and prosperous. bless my friend lord. in jesus name, amen!!!

sighhh

sighh this sat i've got to be jimui..sigghh i really am afraid im too emotional..im afraid ill suffer coz im suffering rite now..ill be thinkin im so weak nobody wants to marry me..then sun night ive got wedding dinner..sighh how horrible ill be feeling on the inside..sighhhh...jen-li!!! no matter what just act happy tho ur bleeding on the inside!!! u can do it!!!

Birthday!!!

i seriously thought i was gonna hv the most loneliest and sad bday ever but it turns out the total opposite..they celebrated my bday during leaders meeting and i've got a really cool bag, on friday during cell group and i even got sabo by my cell members =( it was fun though coz how often do you get to taste whipped cream on your-just-washed-hair-before-going-cell group? lol!!! yeah and the whipped cream taste good!!! a modern wallet to match the bag i've got as well!!!

on saturday..i was kinda depress and miserable actually coz i had misunderstanding..so actionla 1 min got plan ed :( and i thought it was gonna be a normal every yr kinda bday thingy no diff at all..sighh..i was wanting to be surprised on 12 am by HY,060909..but it turns out i just got a phone call lol..anyway total misunderstanding!!! my close & best friends-p6 was really reaalllyy soo niceeeeeeeeeeeeee..they took me out for dinner at dave in one u..we had pork knuckles, some carbonara, fishy thingy, chicken thingy and pizzas..lol couldnt remember the names of the dishes..and each of us had 2 big glasses of ice lemon tea and honey lemon..it was really a big feast..(that;s why im soo fat now7/9/09.) we catch up quite a bit they were sharing bout taiwan trip as they just got back..woo i totally missed it!!! then after dinner we walked a lil bit in one u and i said i need to go home already( coz i was act hoping for a surprise at home).

we headed back to subang, we went to baby t cafe at the apartments below beside carrefour! we chilled there for quite some time and i kept asking to go back home as i really cannot take the smokey area..goshh my whole face skin condition got worst coz of the cigars and hair smells of smokes..i seriously hateee cigars and smokes..coz im really very sensitive to them as well. arggh i just hate it! and it's not cool to watch them smokin also, they might think its cool but its totally NOT!!! Wasting money, shortening life and killing lives!!! anyway back to the topic, hehe yeah sudd they brought cakes out for me..weeeeeeeee and sang happy birthday song..wow i was really touched suchh good and close friends..i really love them sincerely & appreciate our friendship and miss those times we had together p6, though i felt out of place at times coz well prob ppl change and we all have our own set of lives?

yeah and i was alsooo blessed that all my friends, hi bye ppl and coll wishing me a happy bday! my facebook itself is filled with wishes!!! my hp didnt stop ringing with calls and msgs!!! =] so blessed!

after 12am they dropped me back home, and i was preparing to sleep..but bro not back yet..and there goes my worried mum..making me worried as well when im seriously dead tired..i kept assuring her that my bro will be back in no time..but there she goes kept on and on worrying till i've to act so cold by saying aiya u call thousand times also he wont pick up as his phone silent mode and he wants to have his so called 'teenage life' so why not just sleep..its already 2.30 am and i need to go church tomorrow!!! she said i was being insensitive and heartless and dun care bout my bro! gosh..but what can i do? i just don't want her to worry so muchhh and unnecessarily that is why im telling her as though it's no big deal! my bro got back at 3 am and guess what? they had an argument which last bout 30mins..after that mum slept straight, left me feeling helpless and even more depress coz why why its my bday why..i already felt depress and heartsick coz of the misunderstanding i had earlier which i felt emotionally wreck the whole day and night tho i was out celebrating with my close friends..then family at home also like that..sigh i cried silently thinking why should i be born today..why do i need to live..why do i need to go through life till i fell asleep around 5am i guess..the next day jo picked me at 1030am to go for church service..

after that..i thought it's gonna get worst coz it's compulsory to attend career talk as im in one of the leaders/core/interns group...sighhh..it ends at 530, i wanna go out celebrate and spend more time with h2y as i never had a bday celebration with h2y before, to make it more worst..when we ate at old town,my mum called saying my aunt's coming to visit me she wanna take me out for a nice lunch for my bday..then i ask my leader do i really need to go for the career talk later? yeah he said i need to as it is compulsory if ur not going u better find a good reason to tell south zone leader as he's not gonna cover for me, sighh soo depressla..my bday also have to go this kinda boring thingy summore im soo sleepy and tired didnt get enuff of sleep ed! gosh totally devastated..sighh..then i thought well well there goes my bday-saddening horrible lonely ridiculous..wooo..crying in my heart!!! the career talk ends at 530 but i left at 515 coz i need to rush home to get ready to celebrate my bday with hy!

when i got home, my aunt was still in my hs..lol happyyyyy..then we ate ice cream cake together(aunt,mum and i) as i really wanted an ice cream cake coz i never tried before!!! it was soo delicious and it was soo warmth.. a small piece of ice cream cake shared among the three of us!!! there..i felt soo much better..not so sad already! wee

after sharing the cake and catching up with aunt for a lil bit..i rushed to bath and get ready as i dont like to keep ppl waiting actually..then we headed off..

in the car i felt really horrible as we talked about the misunderstanding on sat..sighhh sobz..i was holding my tears sooo soo hard actually..but i just cant take it alreadyla..bla bla bla thankfully it's solved!!! then i was passed with a parcel of present-i love the card sister gave to me soo sincere and sweet(she made herself as she is learning to make) and the top as well!!! weeee

then we head on to klcc to walk around a bit..and had our aunt annie's hotdog and lemonade keke..after that..i was supposed to guess the place..the clue'can only go at night one' lol i thought it was revolving tower or the lil genting which i heard my fren telling me can see kelip kelip at nite dunno whether lying to poor innocent me or not la..but i bet it's to go there to be bitten by mosquitoes only..
then tadaaaa..sudd i felt the familiar road..i knew it's luna bar!!! sooo cooolllllllllllllll la!!! i actually wished to have my birthday party at luna bar last yr hehe with my first someone special la..=b

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee i was soo happy when i got there even more happy that ahem had planned to brought me there!!! i really really really heart hy!!! it wass soooooo beautiful romantic and soooo sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet of dugong gosh!!!

to realised not much food choices, we headed a few floors down and had thai food..yummmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..pad thai, tomyam rice, tomyam soup and curry duck lol..seriously full but superr delicious man!!!

after that we went up back to the same spot in luna bar as we booked the place earlier..soooo niceee..i drank some choc vodka cocktail..lol..i seriously dont think i can drink those i rather drink coffeee or wine..as i really think the taste is weird..we chilled there for quite a few hours and watched a lil of 27 dresses and hottie and nottie..lol..weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..we headed to our car park at level 6(same no with my bday) to go home around 11 plus 12..

i seriously am so touched and really enjoyed myself after the career talk!!! so sincere and sweet and thoughtful la!!! muakksssssssssssssssssss!!! =]besides that, i've loads of wishes, greetings, cards and also presents!!! today i celebrated my bday with my family.. we had an awesome lunch together tho it was bit exp!!! i had an awesome dinner as well..i really love my auntie cooking..i love the carrot soup, the steamed fish and lol duck again(itchy ditchy)!!!

it was really an awesome different loved bday!!!